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Cathy L.
(Moyer) Hafer
Jan 12, 1967 — Aug 6, 2026
Friday
Lutz Funeral Home, Inc.
10:00 am - 12:00 pm (Eastern time)
Cathy L. (Moyer) Hafer, 59, of Shillington, passed away unexpectedly but peacefully on Thursday, August 6, 2026, at Reading Hospital.
Born in Reading, Cathy was the beloved daughter of Ralph Moyer Jr. and Charlotte (Rigg) Moyer of Exeter. She was a proud graduate of Exeter High School, Class of 1984, and spent many years working in sales for several companies, most recently at Babies "R" Us, where her warm personality and caring nature made lasting connections with both coworkers and customers.
Above all else, Cathy cherished her family. Nothing in the world brought her greater joy than being "Mimi" to her grandchildren. She adored each of them and delighted in spoiling them every chance she could. Her love for her family was unconditional, and the memories she created with them will be treasured forever.
Cathy had one of the kindest hearts imaginable. She was the type of person who would give the shirt off her back to someone in need, expecting nothing in return. She had the biggest, most beautiful smile that could brighten any room and the silliest sense of humor. She had a remarkable way of finding light, even in life's most difficult moments, and knew just how to make everyone laugh. Whether she was dressing up with the kids for Halloween, letting her granddaughters cover her in makeup, or simply filling a room with laughter, Cathy had a special gift for making her family feel deeply loved. Her greatest gift wasn't simply making people laugh-it was making the people she loved feel loved. Her gentle spirit, generosity, and unwavering love touched countless lives and left the world a little brighter simply because she was in it.
Cathy was an avid animal lover whose home and heart were always shared with her beloved pets. She leaves behind her faithful dogs, Hydra, Bronson, and Angus, and her cherished cats, Neegan and MoMo, all of whom she loved dearly. Cathy also loved the beach, where she found happiness and peace, and enjoyed tending her vegetable garden. While her vegetables flourished, she would jokingly admit that flowers never seemed to survive under her care-a little truth that always brought a smile to those who knew and loved her.
Cathy is survived by her loving companion, Jeremy Shumard; her parents, Ralph Moyer Jr. and Charlotte Moyer; her children, Sara B. Hafer, companion of Joe Pianka, Benjamin A. Hafer, companion of Angela Sharpe, and Rebecca G. Hafer; her stepdaughters, Rebecca, companion of Mike, and Felicia; her beloved grandchildren, Stella, Delilah, Clayton, Brianna, Hunter, Benny Jr., Ava, Alex, and Eden; her siblings, Ralph Moyer III, Daniel Moyer, and Lynnanne Moyer; and many extended family members, beloved nieces and nephews, and dear friends who will miss her beyond words.
Family and friends are invited to celebrate Cathy's life on Friday, August 14, 2026, from 10:00 a.m. until 12:00 p.m. at Lutz Funeral Home, Inc., 2100 Perkiomen Avenue, Reading, PA 19606.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Animal Rescue League, 58 Kennel Road, Birdsboro, PA 19508, in honor of Cathy's lifelong love of animals.
Though our hearts are broken by her loss, we find comfort in knowing that the love Cathy shared so freely will continue to live on in her family, her friends, and in every life she touched. She will be missed beyond words, deeply loved, and forever remembered.
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